Long distance minutes?

Yeah so this is one of those things that I can't really talk about with real life friends or even e-friends so I'm blogging about it.


Why am I crushing on someone I've never met in real life? why? that's so... 2004. So here's the situation. This guy and I are both on a certain internet site where a lot of sexual discussion comes up (not a sex site though) and we kinda noticed that we're both non-vanilla thinkers. So we've exchanged some pics, recommended some sites, and just messaged back and forth. Now this was maybe a couple dozen messages over a year or so. Never thought anything would come of it since I don't do long distance meet and skeets.
So this past weekend a couple people decided to host a phone chat. I called kind of spontaneously. It was a long chat.... fast forward to last night. There was another long chat. Everyone ended up going to bed and there was just the guy and me. Of course he started talking about coming here to meet (and skeet) and I was really thinking "ok.. whatever". We actually ended up talking for about an hour. Ok he talked. I listened mostly. I'm shy and quiet with new people. *blush*
Today... well. Today we talked on IM and then on the phone. How did we end up on the phone for 4 HOURS???? It was all random conversation too, none of that Q&A interview-like awkwardness. Basically what it comes down to is compatibility. From our similar interests/kinks sexual compatibility is VERY likely. Even conversation about random things.... we'd get along.

BUT...


of course there's a BUT


He basically said maybe it's not such a good idea because he might start catching feelings and "acting like a sucka callin you all the time"
*insert eyeroll here*



I dunno. We kinda got back around to the possibilities by the end of our conversation. We both admitted we kinda like each other. I guess we'll just see how it goes.